You want them to grow up. You want them to become mature, responsible adults. You want them to be successful in the world. But most of all you want them to continue walking with the Lord. And part of that growing, maturing, succeeding, and walking come by you letting go... Letting go can mean all sorts of things. You let go through marriage, through having them move into their own homes, etc. And so I suppose that success comes both ways. The children are successful, but the parents are too. I hope.
We have already "let go" of three children by marriage. And been through the "letting go" in the past of 5 by moving into their own homes. And we've had one marry and move far away for work. No, I don't have even more children than you thought. These are overlapping.
But this month, I "let go" of two more children. I have one moving to southern California for work related studies and another moving to Georgia for college. wow... We will have children living in North Carolina, Georgia, Idaho, and California. Who's next?
Peter and I knew when we had all these children that there was a high likelihood of them moving far away. And we accepted that. At least we thought we did. You know, you don't truly know if you've accepted something until you have to face it. And now we're facing it... and resting in Him.
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